The Effect of a Glenview Divorce on Children

All parents are concerned about their children when they file for divorce.  At the law offices of M. Gordon Scott, we understand your concerns.  We believe that family comes first.

The University of New Hampshire’s Cooperative Extension reported the following facts on how children handle divorce and separation:

• Age of children – The less a child understands, the more he or she may act out.  Divorce affects children of all ages, and the emotional state of the parents affect them physically and emotionally.  However, the quality of the parent-child relationship is more important than the gender and age of the child.
• Gender of children – Research shows that children handle divorce better in joint living arrangements or by being raised by the parent of the same gender.  Again, however, the quality of the relationship between parent and child is more important than the gender and age of the child.
• Amount of conflict – When parents fight, it directly affects their children.  Hostility can cause behavioral, medical, and emotional problems.
• Amount of support – Parents--and other family members--that honestly communicate with children can improve their adjustment.

Our Glenview divorce law firm works diligently to reduce the negative effects of divorce on the children involved.

Glenview divorce mediation minimizes negative effects on children

The courts have found mediation to be so helpful that they frequently insist that divorcing parents mediate their disputes before they litigate.  This allows the parents to create their own parenting plan, including creative solutions for their problems that the court might not consider.

Our Glenview divorce lawyers believe that mediation:

Emphasizing love and approval, and minimizing conflict are the best ways to help children handle a divorce.

Limiting your stress during a Glenview contested divorce

The feelings, energy, and stress of parents affect their children.  If parents are stressed, even infants can have negative reactions.  It is important to try to handle your stress as effectively as possible so your children do not suffer.

Get tips from our divorce lawyer in Evanston on getting through a difficult divorce.

Our Glenview divorce lawyers put your family first

A divorce changes everything for your family.  We have skills in alternative dispute resolution and litigation that will ease the transition for you and your children.

Contact our office online and meet with caring divorce lawyers in Glenview.  We are also available by telephone at (847) 329-0101.